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The Decision You've Been Avoiding: Stay, Redesign, or Leave
You do not have to choose between enduring everything and leaving everything. Look closely at the decision, test what you believe and make a responsible next move.
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The decision
Name one decision, not your whole future. Separate the choice in front of you from the discomfort around it.
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| The Decision You've Been Avoiding: Stay, Redesign, or Leave Todd McKeever Leadership Solutions Private decision record. Ratings inform judgment; they do not choose a winner. |
| The decision I have been avoiding Not recorded |
| Why this matters now Not recorded |
| When I need to decide Not recorded |
| The cost of another month of delay Not recorded |
| Role: the work, responsibility and authority Not recorded |
| Rhythm: pace, boundaries and recovery Not recorded |
| Relationships: trust, conflict and support Not recorded |
| Priorities: what gets my best attention Not recorded |
| Direction: where this season is taking me Not recorded |
| The core assumption driving my decision Not recorded |
| Evidence that supports it Not recorded |
| Evidence that contradicts it Not recorded |
| What I do not know yet Not recorded |
| Another explanation worth testing Not recorded |
| Stay: what would remain and what must be protected Not recorded |
| Redesign: what specifically would change and who must agree Not recorded |
| Leave: what I would move toward and how I would transition Not recorded |
| Reasons for my ratings and unknowns to investigate Not recorded |
| Stay: what I may lose or give up Not recorded |
| Redesign: what I may lose or give up Not recorded |
| Leave: what I may lose or give up Not recorded |
| Who is affected and what they need Not recorded |
| The conversation I owe them Not recorded |
| Safety, obligations and non-negotiables Not recorded |
| What I want the 14-day test to tell me Not recorded |
| One small, reversible action Not recorded |
| Test start date Not recorded |
| Review date, 14 days after the start Not recorded |
| What I will observe and record Not recorded |
| Cost, time and family boundaries Not recorded |
| When I will stop early or seek help Not recorded |
| What actually happened and what I learned Not recorded |
| My current decision Not recorded |
| Why this is responsible now Not recorded |
| What remains uncertain Not recorded |
| My next action and who owns it Not recorded |
| Decision date Not recorded |
| When and under what conditions I will revisit it Not recorded |
| Option comparison (1 = weak fit, 5 = strong fit; unknown is not zero) Meaning: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown Energy: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown Family: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown Financial resilience: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown Feasibility: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown Reversibility: Stay Unknown | Redesign Unknown | Leave Unknown |
| Safety exception: If there is abuse, coercion, danger, or a serious health crisis, prioritize safety and appropriate local professional support. Do not wait for a 14-day test. This is a reflection tool, not financial, investment, legal, tax, medical or clinical advice. Financial resilience ratings are prompts for questions, not recommendations; consult a qualified adviser for your circumstances. |
